Saturday, January 31, 2026

Delayed by Medical Issues, But Determined to Get to Quartzsite, AZ

Our New Year tradition for 10 years has been to leave Livingston on January 2 to enjoy some fun in the sun of AZ.

 

However, Dad encountered some new medical issues during the fall, which required us to remain in Texas.  We got entangled in the hamster wheel known as the “healthcare system”.   Mom has managed to stay off the healthcare merry-go-round.   But every few years, Dad gets on board that carousel that never seems to stop.  Dealing with healthcare providers is frustrating.  Our situation is even a bit more complex since we don’t carry traditional medical insurance and instead belong to a faith-based health sharing plan.  (Many healthcare providers do not acknowledge these plans, so for intents and purposes, my parents are self-pay patients.)  I’ve learned that patient/advocate proactiveness and constant follow-up are vital. My parents were constantly providing the healthcare professionals with information that THEY should have provided to my parents.  There was so much inefficiency that nearly a month was wasted before Dad got his required treatment (and it would have been even longer had Mom not unholstered her New Jersey attitude in her capacity as advocate!)

 

It amazes me that we can peruse frivolous merchandise on Amazon, place an order, have it filled/shipped by Amazon, and have it in our hands within a matter of days.  Yet, the healthcare industry, which is responsible for curing and saving human lives, lacks that efficiency and timeliness.  Like why the heck do they still fax orders for tests, referrals, etc., which ultimately never seem to reach their intended receiver.  And then the blame game starts: one provider states emphatically that it was sent, but the receiver is adamant they don’t have the order. 

 

And while I am airing my grievances, it is incomprehensible to me the games played with medical billing.  Why does an emergency room charge $5,000+ for a 1.5 hour stay yet be willing to accept only 20% of that amount as “fair” payment.  Or that Dad's E.R. health professionals charged a minimum of $2,121 for “medical decision making” based on tier of condition (even when their decision resulted in not providing the service recommended by Dad’s doctor who instructed Dad to present to the E.R.). Yet they automatically wrote off 90% of the bill as the self-pay amount.  OK, this Rambling RV Rat is done ranting!  But I sure am glad the rodentia world is far less complicated.

 

The good news is that Dad is all fixed up and doing great!  And in between all the medical chaos, we enjoyed our dance and volunteer activities and spent more time with friends.

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Our dance family presented us with a "going away" gift.  We love our Hot Steppers Dance Group!



Best of all, we were able to return to our planned trip to Quartzsite, AZ!  We hightailed it out of TX just 2 days before the crazy ice storm hit.  We took our usual route of I-10 to US-90 outside of San Antonio, which kept us out of Hill Country and the typical colder weather.  Then we got back on I-10 for the remainder of our trip.

 

We made our standard overnight stops (boondocking at Escapees Lone Star Corral, Hondo, TX for $5; free boondocking at Ghost Lights Observation Center, Marfa, TX; full hook up supersized site at Escapees Dream Catcher RV Park, Deming, NM for $36, where we filled our water tanks/dumped our wastewater/did laundry).  We experienced ice/freezing temperatures driving through Van Horn, TX. Thereafter through Deming, NM we encountered heavy rain/cold/fog.  I was amazed at how much precipitation the area received—the desert floor looked like a lake!  But once we reached the AZ border, we were greeted with blue skies and warmer temperatures (though the conditions of the roadways were horrendous.  Huge holes everywhere!)

Since we have taken this route many times, we have exhausted most of our roadside attractions.  But here is a new one to share with you.   Uvalde, TX, birthplace of actor (and huge fan of the University of Texas Longhorns) Matthew McConaughey.  Alright, Alright, Alright!

In 2027 TX will no longer be able to boast that it is home to the largest Buc-ee's.  That honor will go to FL, when a new 76,245-square-foot Buc-ee's opens in Ft. Pierce.  But TX still holds the record for the SMALLEST Buc-ee's, located outside of Sanderson, TX.

The unique rock formations within Texas Canyon in Cochise, AZ...  


...remind me of the Flintstones and their town of Bedrock.


Picacho Peak is one hike we will NEVER attempt.   It is rated a 4.8 out of 5 in difficulty and requires a vertical climb using cables.  It is not for the faint of heart or those fearful of heights.

  

Our journey was not trouble-free--Big Boomer busted an anti-freeze hose just outside of Del Rio.  This was the third occurrence in the last 3 years, all involving different hoses (and the third consecutive year in which we encountered a problem enroute to Quartzsite!  This is not the kind of trifecta you want to get!)  Thankfully, Dad had the parts/tools to do another repair.  But poor Mom—this was the second time this happened during her shift at the wheel.  She is beginning to think Big Boomer doesn’t like her driving!

 



I don’t know about Big Boomer, but I certainly do not like it when Mom drives.  Mom usually is my photographer and note taker.  As random thoughts go through my cotton head, she writes them down for me to peruse when I write my blogs.  She is quite a proficient assistant to this Rambling RV Rat.  But Dad doesn’t quite make the grade.  He NEVER takes notes or photos without my prompting him first.  If only I had fingers, I wouldn’t have to rely on him at all!  It is so hard to find good help these days.  Anyway...

  

Because the weather and breakdown added time/stress to our travels, we decided we didn’t want to do the final 7-hour drive from Deming, NM to our destination of Quartzsite, AZ all in one day.  So, we stayed at Button Brew House, a Harvest Host in Marana, AZ.  I am not sure why they call themselves a “Host”.  They do not allow parking within their lot.  Instead, you are parking at the end of a public street!  Nevertheless, we fulfilled our obligation and patronized the brewery. Mom indulged in her usual (Diet Cokes) while Dad had a couple of craft beers to console himself.  You see, there were several other members of Harvest Hosts parked on the road when we arrived.  So, Dad had to make a tight U-turn.  This resulted in him boogering up Suite Retreat, when the front bumper of my Rambling RV Rat Rubicon rammed into the right rear taillight area, causing minor fiberglass damage (another item added to Dad’s to do list).


Button Brew House's Beer Garden

Dad soaking up some sunrays and sampling some beer as solace for his bumper blunder.

Suite Retreat's boo boo gets bandaged.  What would we do without duct tape!

 

The price of diesel fuel was erratic.  We paid as high as $3.95/gallon in Van Horn, TX and as low as $3.09 in Eloy, AZ.  The highest price I noted was $4.24/gallon.

 

Finally, we arrived at our beloved quirky Quartzsite (albeit 3+ weeks later than usual and too late to attend some of the special events that occur here).  We returned to Tyson Wash Long Term Visitor Area (LTVA) where we paid the $180 seasonal fee to gain access to the water and dump station while we boondock within the 11,000 acres of public lands in the area operated by the Bureau of Land Management (BLM).  Though our “site” from the prior 4 years was already inhabited, we found a wonderful alternative further down the road.

 

It is great to be back in our “winter” home!  Let the fun times begin! 

I had to add my self-portrait rock art to the "landscaping".

                                                                               







Monday, December 29, 2025

Celebrating the Holiday Season – East Texas Style!

My family just loves Christmastime here in East Texas.  There are so many wonderful events to attend and fun activities in which to participate, both locally and in Houston.  Much to my regret, my parents haven’t figured out a way to clone us!  So, we must choose the events closest to our hearts from so many that occur simultaneously (especially during the second weekend of December).


As with our tradition, we kicked off the holiday season with the City Lighting Ceremony during Thanksgiving Week and began our weekly seasonal volunteer commitment of ringing bells for the Salvation Army Red Kettle fundraiser. 









Then:

 

We took a “Walk Through Bethlehem”, a wonderful depiction of the City of David on the night the Christ Child was born, sponsored by the First Baptist Church of Livingston.

            

 

We visited the lights at Pedigo and Penguin Parks and on public grounds within Livingston.

 





We made our inaugural visit to the Polk Christmas House, whose displays include animatronics and characters from Star Wars, Grinch, Rudolph, and even Nightmare Before Christmas.






We popped in to see the train set up in Good Golly, Miss Molly’s Emporium.  It is always such fun to challenge my eyesight to find all the figures “hidden” within the massive train and village set ups.


We were privileged and honored to join the Southeast Texas Patriot Guard Riders (PGR) in the send-off festivities at GW Bush International Airport for the Gary Sinese Foundation's "Snowball Express."  The organization bestows the families of fallen military members with a wonderful fun-filled week in Disney World.  This year was extra special.  In addition to meeting new folks and reconnecting with families, volunteers, and staff who participated in prior years, I made some new canine therapy buddies!

 


                              







We attended the Toy Run to Boys and Girls Country in Hockley, Texas, sponsored by the San Jacinto High Rollers Motorcycle Club.









…And all of that fun was just within the FIRST week of December!

 

The second weekend of December, we forfeited browsing the vendors at Livingston’s Hometown Christmas (though Dad did take time to help set up his Masonic Lodge’s booth and sell breakfast tacos).    Instead, we supported Wreaths Across America (a national event we have done for many years, going back to our days in New Jersey).  As members of the East and Southeast Texas Patriot Guard Riders (PGR), we attended the ceremony and laid wreaths on the graves of military veterans interred at Garden of Memories Cemetery in Lufkin, Texas.


Ladies Auxiliary of the American Legion Post in Lufkin, Texas.



We returned home just in time to join in the caroling at Escapees RV Park for folks who are unable to leave their homes due to health issues.  





And we ALWAYS find time to watch the Livingston Lighted Christmas Parade, the finale of which features everyone's favorite fat philanthropist, Santa Claus.





The next day we attended "Our Father's Love", the beautiful cantata at First Methodist Church in Livingston.   We joined our fellow Southeast Texas PGR members (along with a neighborhood pooch who seems to greet us each year) to lay a few wreaths on local heroes’ gravesites, including PFC Stuart Moore, who lost his life at age 21 on Christmas Eve while serving in Afghanistan.

 





Though we missed our Hot Stepper dance group performances at Coldspring and Shepherd Christmas events due to other commitments, we made sure to be available to dance at 4 area nursing/assisted living homes.  Despite us dancers making some mistakes (which provides some laughs/comedy), we know our performances, as well as the time we spend socializing with the residents, provide much joy.   

 

In addition to performing, we joined our dancing buddies for our annual holiday party.

Me and Diane, our beloved Texas Dance Instructor.

Speaking of our dance group, several of our members performed in "What Sweeter Music", representing the blended voices of folks from various churches within San Jacinto County.  We went to support their efforts and enjoy the beautiful sounds of traditional Christmas carols.



We added some new holiday events in Houston to our calendar as well.

 

We attended “Radiant Nature” at the Houston Botanical Gardens, a unique and festive light display to “see the gardens glow” and showcase the traditions of the Chinese culture.  It offers a spectacular array of artistry and creativity in a kaleidoscope of vivid colors!   We had the perfect evening to stroll through the display, with clear skies and a light breeze.  We paid extra for the on-site parking pass, eliminating the need to park at the Metro station and be shuttled over.  And we chose the earliest timed entry, 6 pm, where it was dark enough to enjoy the rainbow of colors, yet no crowds in front of us to interfere with photos.  This Rambling RV Rat highly recommends this exhibit.

 











The exhibit includes a celebration of the Lunar New Year, and I am thrilled my species is recognized within the Chinese zodiac.




One of the things we miss about our sticks/bricks lives in New Jersey is visiting New York City each Christmastime to see a Broadway show or attend the Radio City Music Hall production.  So, it was a real treat for us to get tickets to the play “White Christmas” in Houston at the Hobby Center's Theater Under the Stars.  The show was fantastic!  The caliber of the performers rivaled any of those we have seen on Broadway.  We had excellent seats and fun times chatting with our seat “neighbors”, many of whom were family members of the cast.  This production of “White Christmas” gets a Rambling RV Rat 5-cheese award!




On Christmas Eve we began our celebration of the birth of our Savior by watching services at Colorado Community Church.  (God puts us in places for a reason, and while Big Boomer was hospitalized for 3.5 weeks in Aurora, Colorado in 2022, we attended Sunday services at this most welcoming and diverse house of worship.  We have continued to make it our spiritual home).  Then we enjoyed a Festa Dei Sette Pesci or Feast of the 7 Fishes, an Italian tradition of abstaining from meat on the eve of a holy day.  Though Mom keeps a seafood menu, she refuses to make the stinky smelts, salty baccala (cod), slimy scungilli (snail) and icky eels that would be part of the fare from when she was a kid (and which she would never eat).  So, we “Americanize” our varieties a bit.  We have shrimp, mussels, clams, and this year we added salmon, and bacon-wrapped scallops.

 


Despite our busy schedules, Mom found time to bake holiday cookies.


Christmas Day was lighter fare, Antipasto, homemade bread, and a portabella mushroom/spinach/cheese stromboli, topped off with Mom’s New York Style cheesecake.  And, of course, watching Christmas Story was part of our day's traditional activities.



Yes, our Christmas was quite merry and bright.  But it was a far cry from white.  Temperatures were in the high 70s, we experienced dense fog, and the air was thick with humidity at 70%.  Such is Christmastime in East Texas.








The true reason for the season.


From our home-on-wheels to you and your families, best wishes that 2026 brings us all good health (especially for my Dad, since he has some new medical issues), happiness, peace, and prosperity.


Yours truly and my Rambling RV Rat Pack.